Yearly Archives: 2011

Am I POLY, or just HORNY?

You run a fantastic blog! Thanks for allowing us to ask these sensitive questions in safety and openness. 🙂 I read your excellent post on Open Relationships vs. Polyamory and, after examining my feelings and situation, I’m still uncertain as

Posted in advice, bisexuality, choices, communication, faith, open marriage

And the bad timing award goes to…

Mischa and Leon- First of all, THANK YOU for creating a place where people in all phases of discovering their preferred love and lifestyles – particularly one free from the LACK of anonymity attached to requesting to join the forum

Posted in coming out, dating tips

Kink beware

Lately I have noticed a very big influx of kink into the poly community. I’m not against kink, but I feel that people are who aren’t into kink might be turned off to becoming part of the poly community if

Posted in BDSM, community, kink, newbies

Open relationships vs. polyamory

So I’ll start off with my answer to a question that pops up pretty often, and is asked by both veterans and new polypeople, to wit: “What’s the difference between an open relationship, and a poly one?” One way of

Posted in advice, open relationships, poly

Obligatory introductory post

Hi everyone, We’re going to try something new here – a poly advice column/blog. Because we’re tired of seeing all the hack advice given out by the Dear Abbys, Dr. Phils and Psychology Today columnists not named Deborah Anapol, who

Posted in introductions, poly, polyamory, q+a