Yearly Archives: 2016

Newbie drowning in “Hunger Games” dating pool

Dear Mischa and Leon, OK, so – help. I’ll spare you the intricate details, at least for the moment, and do my best to sum up my dilemma. We’ve been together for 20 years. We were each other’s first at

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Posted in advice, dating tips

Can this relationship be saved?

Dear Leon and Mischa, So here’s the situation – me and the man I love have been at each other’s throats for weeks now; he’s poly and I have been monogamous to him. For the last month or so he’s

Posted in advice, poly/mono

I hate my married partner’s new girlfriend!

Hi, I’ve been in a relationship for 10 years with a married woman. I am surprisingly comfortable being in this relationship considering her wife does not know. The married woman and I have been doing this without any idea of

Posted in advice, jealousy, open marriage, open relationships

I love two women – how do I stop lying to them?

Hello, I hope you guys could give me some insight. I’ll try and make this as short and sweet as I can. Honestly, I am tired of talking about it and thinking about it. Here is my story – I’m

Posted in advice, coming out, newbies, open relationships

How can I feel compersion for someone I used to know?

Hi there Mischa and Leon, I have a partner. He’s married. His wife is wonderful. I’m in a relationship with him, but not her. That’s fine. My partner is interested in a friend of mine. Well, I say friend. It’s

Posted in advice, compersion, open relationships