Yearly Archives: 2017

What sex restrictions are reasonable and when?

Hello, Growing up I wanted monogamy because anything else was “not real love”. I didn’t want anything that wasn’t authentic. As a high school girl I started discovering my sexuality, my body, and what turned me on. I started watching

Posted in advice, open relationships

Reader ‘alarmed’ by partners sharing emails

Hi, I am extremely new to the poly scene and am still learning community ‘norms.’  In relation to that, I recently read the post on this blog from October 6, 2013 entitled, “Should I let my partner read my emails?” It

Posted in advice, communication, jealousy

Cheating wife wants more from marriage

Hello there, In the last three months, I’ve been cheating on my husband (more consistently) with an old flame from over a decade ago. The old flame is in an open marriage and so it was always safe for me

Posted in advice, choices, open marriage

How do I convince my girlfriend to be polyamorous?

Hi Mischa and Leon, I’m just looking for a bit of advice. Basically I’ve been with this girl for over a year now and I’m polyamorous. I haven’t made it apparent to anyone before because my past relationships weren’t exclusive

Posted in advice, coming out, poly/mono